Full name | Pamela James
Nickname(s) | Pam (by everyone)
Gender | Female
Born | April 10, 1963
Age | 25-30 ( current age possible early 50's)
Occupation | Businesswoman
Parents | Unnamed mother
Step-parents | Unnamed ex-boyfriend
Cousins | Tammy
Leon Lonny Love (1st cousin 2x removed)
Pamela "Pam" James Gina's sassy, beautiful, explosive best friend who is consistently portrayed as Martin's antagonist. Initially, Pam worked in a boutique on commission. In later episodes, it's revealed that she works at the PR firm where Gina is employed, as Gina's coworker . Pam and Tommy were occasionally flirtatious with each other in the beginning, and this developed into a romantic relationship for a brief time, during the Season 3. They later broke up near the beginning of Season 4 and remained friends for the rest of the series. During Season One, Cole harbored an unrequited crush on Pam, which she usually responded to by losing her temper with him.
she is thought to be the main antagonist of the tv series but this is not ture.